Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Paxton Lukas



So here's the newest addition to our little family, Paxton Lukas! He was born on Saturday, September 3, 2011 @ 3:25 AM weighing in at  7lbs 8oz and 20.5" long. I was certain that he was going to be a girl so I was so overwhelmed when he was a boy! I'm already loving the sound of saying "my boys"!

Paxton's journey to the outside world was not without trauma. Cohen (my first born) had a difficult journey too and ended with a c-section.
I woke up with lots of energy and decided I should make a batch of salsa. So my grandma and I chopped up veggies and broke out the canner and got a large batch made. Then we cleaned the house and headed out for lunch.
On Friday afternoon I went to the hospital because I was (TMI) bleeding more than I thought I should be. I was admitted to the maternity ward and they did an internal exam. Turns out I was 8 cm dilated. You have to know I was in ZERO pain and was only feeling light cramping in my lower back. I bounced around on the ball and walked around, listened to my ipod and hung out with Jason. We thought, "Man, this baby is just going to walk right out!"
When my doctor arrived at the hospital, she checked my again and she couldn't feel the baby's head so she broke my water to give her a better idea of where I was. I was actually only 6cm but still no major pain.
By 7:00pm I was 9 cm (still with no pain). My doctor said if nothing happened by ten they were going to induce me to intensify my contractions. I really didn't want any medical intervention so the nurse suggested pumping with the breast pump every hour for ten minutes. I did that for three hours and then my contractions came on strong. By midnight I was trying my best to push that baby out.
After an hour and a half I was done. I hadn't slept the night before and was exhausted. By then they babies head was really far down and trying to get over the pubic bone. After some examinations they realized that yet again the baby was face up. I pushed until 3am and it was decided that they baby was just not coming out.
As the last hope before a c-section we stupidly opted to try the vaccuum. They tried 2-3 times but it didn't work. Two doctors examined me one more time and it was decided that at this point a c-section was the best option. I really didn't want another c-section but I was actually so relieved when I could stop pushing. My pelvis was just not made to deliver naturally.
After getting all stitched back together I was informed that there possibly was something wrong with the baby. They were doing tests and we might be sent to another hospital. I was still foggy from the epidural and exhausted from the labour, that I didn't totally comprehend but I just started crying.
Turns out everything was fine. His blood sugar was a little low but was normal within 24 hours. Apparently that's one of the risks of using the vaccuum.
I was able to nurse with in a few hours of the operation which can be rare after a c-section. He latched on right away and has been a breastfeeding poster child every since.
He is so perfect! And he looks like me when I was a baby:) This makes me happy because my oldest has never ever looked like me.
So we are all glad that is behind us and are just enjoying our new son. My favourite thing so far is his cute gas-induced smiles! He seems to smile at just the right times and its too funny:)

In case you are wondering Paxton means "place of peace" and Lukas means "light, luminous." He is so content and just suits his name perfectly!

3 comments:

Krysten Buhlin said...

So happy for you guys!! He's adorable :)

Holly said...

so wonderful!! I'm sorry you weren't able to deliver like you hoped, but I'm so happy for you guys! I'm surprised he doesn't really look like Cohen, fun to have him look like you! I'll have to come for a visit once you're ready. :):) All the best, and congrats again.

two birds said...

congrats! i love reading other people's birth stories. as hard as they are, they are so worth it! i love the names and their meanings, btw!